When I was 19 years old my mom, Anna, was diagnosed with brain cancer. Her tumor was located in an area of her head, that if removed, would have left her in a vegetable state. She was given 9 months to live, she lasted 6. She died 4 days prior to my 20th birthday and my life and family has never been the same.
While she was sick and deteriorating, my siblings and father were all able to say our goodbyes and have our time with her, which eased the pain of her passing. But this was never the plan. My mom was supposed to be there for my college graduation, my marriage, and to meet her grandchildren.
While she was sick, she was able to tell me that she was always going to take care of me, but it would have to be from heaven. We both sobbed after she said this because it was an unfair reality. I am so grateful for hospice and the strength of my father, because they cared for her until her last breath. We were all home with her on June 5, 1998 when my momma passed away in her home. I am blessed and grateful for the time I had with her and will keep her memory alive for as long as I live.
While she was sick and deteriorating, my siblings and father were all able to say our goodbyes and have our time with her, which eased the pain of her passing. But this was never the plan. My mom was supposed to be there for my college graduation, my marriage, and to meet her grandchildren.
While she was sick, she was able to tell me that she was always going to take care of me, but it would have to be from heaven. We both sobbed after she said this because it was an unfair reality. I am so grateful for hospice and the strength of my father, because they cared for her until her last breath. We were all home with her on June 5, 1998 when my momma passed away in her home. I am blessed and grateful for the time I had with her and will keep her memory alive for as long as I live.
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